The Refective "Momtitioner"

“The Reflective Mom-titioner”

I recently had the opportunity to take a long-overdue mini-vacation with my husband.  We stayed at a nice, well-known four-star hotel.  I was pleased to find that the bathroom had a vanity mirror – one of those big, handheld 5X magnification mirrors.  I don’t own one myself so having the opportunity to use it was a treat for me, as it would make the process of make-up application easier.

My happiness was quickly transformed to horror when I saw all of the blemishes and imperfections the mirror had in store for me!  But rather than turn away from them, I took the time to make corrections, clean and enhance what was there.  By the time I was done and flipped the mirror back over I was pleased at the finished product.

As moms we are constantly on the go, managing, transporting, scheduling, nurturing, DOING.  We seldom stop to take time to reflect and take a good introspection of our actions, beliefs, thoughts, etc.  Doing so could be a bit concerning, as your initial evidence may reveal parts of you that you either didn’t know were there, or didn’t realize were as severe as they are. 

But don’t shy away from the process.  I invite you to jump in feet first and bask in the practice of self-reflection.  Only when we take a closer look at ourselves will we see those things that need to be adjusted and improved.  Self-reflection that yields self-improvement will bring about more harmony within your soul and among those who surround you – your family, friends and colleagues (if applicable). 

Distinguished educators are characterized by their ability to be “reflective practitioners” – ones who contemplate the practice and pedagogy of teaching.  I invite you to be “reflective mom-titioners” – those who take the time to stop and consider how and why we go about the practice of “mothering.”  I assure you that when you do, you will see an image of yourself that is stronger, wiser and more beautiful that you ever thought you were.